I’m just saying… We need to start helping each other get what we both need. And we will get there quicker and with less heartache if we started with some honesty and re-think everything we knew until now because guess what? Everything we’ve been doing UP till now these past few decades — clearly isn’t working in our favour long term when it comes to dating.
My book still has value I believe, even in the darkest times. Why? Because if we learn to love each other and unite, we stand a better chance to fight the injustices of this world.
We want to be there for the kids 100%, right? Are we overdoing it? How about we’re there 95% for them and at least 5% for ourselves, (time-wise), so we can be there for the kids in a 100% good mood.
I’m not depressed about turning 44 or getting older. I used to be in the past at times, not this time though. I feel balanced, strong. I finally have the kind of confidence I wish I had in my twenties already. I guess we all wish for that.
